Enlightenment:
To become enlightened is to view yourself and others as one. It is taking responsibility for whatever happens to you no matter how terrible. When you are enlightened you do not have time to hate, and you realize there are no justified resentments.
Enlightenment does not mean you become perfect and are given saintly status. It does not mean you stop having fun in life, and become an outsider. It does mean you know and accept the laws of enlightenment. These laws all encompass loving everyone and realizing everyone is perfect just the way they are. You do not judge others by their behaviour, but by their Divine Spirit; their Divine connection to God.
When viewing behaviour that you know is not of God you bless the person and visualize them as they can be. By sending out thoughts of love instead of hate you help to reverse the trend of hate begetting hate. You do not become part of the problem, but part of the solution.
Enlightenment is understanding that we are all different, yet we are all connected to God. You do not place judgements on anyone or let anyone judge you. You do not place yourself below or above anyone else. You realize everyone has a purpose here on earth, and it is not up to you to determine another's purpose. You are for something rather than against something. For example, you are for peace rather than being against war.